Well, seeing as how I say "perhaps" to everything, I may have found just the solution to this whole "saying no" thing.
But in all honesty, I should probably say "no" to:
1. Guilt (this is where "perhaps" comes into play..as in, perhaps I'll come to your party - or perhaps I'll be sitting on my couch with a baguette and nutella.)
2. Stress (again, perhaps - great word - as in, perhaps I'll be there at 6, or maybe I'll have to stay late at work and won't be able to come at all...)
4. Fleur de sel (how I heart thee)
5. The pressure life brings as 30 approaches